We are super hosts since many years. Last Saturday Keenan and his girlfriend stayed with us for one night. It started very well but around 12:15 am they were outside making noise in our hot tub.. I had to talk to them about being quiet so our neighbors would not be bothered that late. There were bottles of alcohol by the hot tub... When they came back inside, they couldn't just settle down. They were in at out the house, started cooking food at 4:45 am so our house smelted like macaroni and cheese. When I had to get up the third time because they left my dog outside, for sure that I wasn't very happy. I was exhausted from no sleep all night.
The next morning, my hot tub was smelly, big black ring around the top of the water and there was a lighter floating in the water. We had to totally empty the hot tub and buy new filter, chemicals and spend hours trying to remove the stains.
Keenan didn't realize that going in a private house implies that you have a different set of expectations. A private house is not a place to party and drink our wine. Next time Keenan should go to a hotel.