Dan, It is shocking to me you didn’t say THANK YOU. You invited 10 of your work colleagues to cook in my house in my kitchen with a pre-arranged list of kitchen items I made sure you had. First you said you would be cooking at noon but you did not. You had your guests park their bicycles in my hallway for hours. You came 3 hours after you originally said, and you monopolized BOTH THE 4th AND 5th floor. You were given a master bedroom with a living area, bathroom, refrigerator and other amenities but YOU NEEDED A FULL KITCHEN, to which I said yes! You could have gone upstairs after a couple of hours when you saw how inconvenienced I was.
. You didn’t leave the kitchen the way you found it. There was still garbage to take out, dirty dishes in the dishwasher and plenty of bottle caps on the floor. And while I told you my Home is NOT for sit down lunches, you made it seem like you just NEEDED to cook in my kitchen. At no time did I tell you to take your guests to your private space. But I DID GIVE up my own needs for the day so you could have your company. . You used my antique dishes, spices, furniture, and more and were given access to absolutely everything in my private life. I was incredibly caring re Grace and her security dog DESPITE THE INCONVENIENCE for me! You took my time, My undivided attention, AND my money. I paid more money to have you here than you paid to be here. Had you told me my dogs and I were going to need to leave so you could be here, I would have told you to a different AirBnB altogether. The fact that you hovered in front of the sink and cleaning supplies so My helper couldn’t remove the dog poop the moment it appeared is beyond words... I paid my dog walker to watch them the entire day so your guest could be here with her dog.
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I’m deeply hurt and amazed by your lack of gratitude and appreciation for the cornucopia of ways I overextended myself. I DO NOT DO EVENTS FOR over 10 people! I never offered my home to you for that reason. I thought You were coming here like all other guests do. But your MO was to host a work related lunch in MY HOME, failing to recognize house rules say NO PARTIES. You aborted my rules from Day 1, got what you wanted, and failed to mention how you were treated by your host who in a nutshell did well by you. For not a dime. How petty, ungrateful, dishonest, and hypocritical is this?